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| Where is the love? |
When discussing the NBA's best player over the past several years, there doesn't seem to be a middle ground.
You either love or hate Kobe Bryant.
I can understand the love. Bryant is fiercely intense, always engaged on the court. He demands the best of himself on both ends of the floor. At times, he makes the incredible look routine. With each postseason appearance and NBA Championship ring, he creeps ever so softly into the Jordan discussion. He may never be crowned with the "Best Ever" label, but Bryant definitely owns property in the neighborhood.
So why the hate? Especially it seems from women. Is it totally based on the 2003 Colorado incident when he was accused of sexual assault? A case that prosecutors dropped after his accuser was unwilling to testify. Of course, she later brought a separate civil suit against him that was settled out of court. One only needs to read the details of the case to make a judgement on what possibly happened that night. But since there was no one else in the room that night except for Bryant and her, it became a he said, she said regrettable moment in their lives.
I would like to know how many women would stay with their man if they truly believed he was a rapist? Sure, the financial cost to Kobe was astronomical. There's never been an account of how much the civil suit was settled for. He lost a number of endorsements (only to eventually either gain most back or get new ones). Bryant also did what all guys do when they really have to apologize to the wife. Nothing says I love you like a 4 million dollar ring. To this date, Vanessa is still Mrs. Bryant. Guess Kobe had to wait on purchasing the big screen TV that year.
Is the hate because Kobe isn't outwardly fun loving as say Dwight "Superman" Howard? If that's the case, and he's judged as being unapproachable, too bad. There's no law that says Kobe has to kiss babies and pose for photos. If he isn't on Facebook or didn't accept your friendship request, get over yourself. If Kobe doesn't Tweet, perhaps he realizes he doesn't have to brag or boast or let you into his world.
Is it that Bryant sometimes gets on his teammates for not giving more when they should be leaving everything on the floor? Michael Jordan certainly required the best from his supporting cast and they were better for it. A lot of people and players in the league didn't like Jordan either. Six rings and the Hall of Fame later, guess we know who dominated that era.
When Kobe Bryant walks through the tunnel to take the court, I wonder if the lyrics of a popular song are looping through his head.
So hate on but guess what
I feel like I can't miss
I know they want me to fall
But ain't nothing bigger than this
So just pass me the ball
You know you looking at a...
Winner
Winner
Winner









